Why is there Abuse in Marriages?

Relationship or Marriage abuse is a choice and it is a learned behavior. For these reasons, it is difficult to say that relationship abuse is caused by any one single factor. However, the following beliefs and attitudes are common for abusers:

Sense of entitlement

A belief they should have power and control over their partner

Belief that they can get away with it

Learned experience that being abusive gets them what they want

Belief that their lives should take priority.

Abusive people believe they have the right to control and restrict their partner’s lives. This is often because they believe their own feelings and needs should be prioritized in the relationship or because they enjoy exerting the power that such abuse gives them.

Tactics of abuse (in any form) are aimed at dismantling equality in the relationship in order to make their partners feel less valuable and undeserving of respect.

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